Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Advisor, writes… Contrary to popular love advice that’s out there in cyberspace, asking your date a series of interview questions is one way for certain to turn her off and send her packing.

Seriously, put yourself in someone else’s shoes, asking you questions that you’d expect to hear on a job interview. Would that make you feel comfortable? I don’t think so. The love advice you get from a man’s point of view, may not work from a woman’s perspective. From a woman’s point of view, a real man is a man who can communicate about what he wants and how he feels.

It’s more prevalent than ever for a real woman to open her heart and communicate openly from her heart. Open communication is a valuable trait and a turn on for most men.

Whether you’re looking for a casual relationship or someone to spend the rest of your life with, you must start from square one. For the best tips and Love Advice for Dating the first place to start is to know what you want.

1. Knowing What You Want

What’s important to you? Get clear about what those qualities are and you’ll have an easier time knowing when you meet him. Is he funny, does he think you’re funny? Is it important to you that you share the same interests? Is she interesting, well-travelled? What about sports, hobbies, politics, or food?

When you have an idea about what you want you can start sampling from what you encounter in the world or in the relationships of your friends. What do you admire about the friends who have successful relationships? Are there elements that turn you off in other peoples’ relationships? When you’re not afraid to get clear and be straight about what you want, trust me, you’ll be much more able to know when you’ve encountered Mr Right.

2. Be Flexible

When you’re flexible about how, when or who shows up, you’d be surprised on how much easier it is to attract the right one. I’m not suggesting that you compromise or settle for less. I’m proposing that you stay curious about ‘what if he’s even better than I can imagine?’ Be open to getting more than you asked for. That’s what happened for me. I got clear about what I wanted and I stopped listening to everyone else about how hard it was to meet eligible partners.

3. “BE” the Person You’d Like to Meet

That’s right. You got clear on the qualities and values you want in your lover. Now the question is, “are you anything like the person you’d like to meet”? I hope so. If not, you know what you have to do. Start shifting your values and qualities. Then you’ll be a much greater match for your sweetie.

4. Let Go of the HOW

When you let go of the “way it’s supposed to happen” you allow the universe to works its magic. Though that may sound Woo-Woo, the truth is when you have a firm opinion about “HOW it supposed to be,” you limit yourself. You’re also in a resistant mode, which does nothing for the attractor factor.

When you’re looking, it’s much easier to find them when you are really clear on you want. So get clear, go with the flow and be the kind of person you want to meet.